How about some fun time with toys?
Bringing toys into your relationship
There are many benefits from using toys and props in your scenes. They add a nice element to help bring on both your head-space and that of your submissive. They are incredibly pleasurable and can do things that a single Dominant cannot. This IS a good thing, tops!
Certain props can mean
certain things! You can have items that are for punishments only, and items
that are for rewards only. You can have a whole range of toys to play with,
each of which would make you both very happy. I will list some ideas for you below.
Gags
If you live in an apartment, you may want to silence your submissive somehow. There will be
times when he or she cannot help but be loud, and not always in a good way.
To make
sure no one calls the police because they mistakenly think someone is being raped and
murdered, it may be a good idea to get a gag or two.
As gags can hurt your submissive's jaw, make sure to get one that is both comfortable and the correct size.
Here are a few options for you
- Stuff her panties in her mouth!
- Buy a Ball Gag, they are cheap!
- Spider Gags to hold his/her mouth open
- Duct tape! (Be careful)
- Rope, Scarfs, length of Fabric with a knot for in the mouth
- Funnel Gags
- Pacifier
- Penis Gag
Collar
You can have many different collars
for different situations. A collar can symbolize what degree of submission is
expected from him or her.
You can have punishment collars, formal collars, public collars, and collars with locks on them even collars designed to tie your sub in place and hold her there!
The symbolism behind collars is great and beautiful, often people in D/s relationships use them in place of the traditional wedding ring.
You can have punishment collars, formal collars, public collars, and collars with locks on them even collars designed to tie your sub in place and hold her there!
The symbolism behind collars is great and beautiful, often people in D/s relationships use them in place of the traditional wedding ring.
Cuffs
Some people make their subs or slaves wear
cuffs and a collar 24/7. This is so they can easily be restrained. You can lock
her arms behind her back. Tie to anything you wish.
Lock her legs together, or
apart. They will make your submissive feel safe and owned, and of course give you far more
control over her body.
Butt Plugs
Butt plugs can be very intense in
many ways. You can have your submissive stuffed close to 24/7 if you want, so long as you take good care of him or her.
You can get ones with
tails; glass ones, pretty ones, painful ones, large ones, vibrating ones. You
can use them for her pleasure and your own.
You can use them to punish, and to
teach obedience. It all just depends on what size, type and how you use them.
Clamps or Pegs.
You can get clamps for your submissive's nipples,
tongue, clitoris or anything else you want to control, or inflict pain on. There
are so many options for clamps.
Again, for punishment or for pleasure. You can
attach weights to clamps on her labia or nipples. You can hold her open for you.
Perhaps just humiliate him or her in various ways. Be creative, he or she needs it!
They can also be great for letting arousal build throughout the day so that your submissive is nice and ready when you get home!
Blindfolds
Take away her senses and you will find that all the others are heightened. The intimacy will intensify and you will both be closer than ever.There are many things you can use, but you want to make sure that whatever it is blocks his or her vision fully, as well... This is the point.
Other ideas for toys
- Floggers, whips, canes, blunt knives, pin wheels.
- Dog beds (for sleep at your feet or on the floor), dog bowls or dog leads.
- DILDOS!!! Things that vibrate! How better for you to punish with pleasure.
- Anything that brings on a head-space. (Petplay, Little space, Slave Space.)
Caring for your gear
As a Dominant it is important that you take good gear of everything you own, your lovely submissive being the most important of all!
But no, your toys really do need to be looked after well to make sure that they do not harbor any nasty bacteria.
Always clean your gear well after each and every session, use condoms to shield them from bodily fluids if you ever intend on using anything on more than one submissive.
Your gear is something you should pride yourself in, taking good care of it is proof that you are a strong and firm dominant who will always take care of himself, his things and his submissive.
Always clean your gear well after each and every session, use condoms to shield them from bodily fluids if you ever intend on using anything on more than one submissive.
Your gear is something you should pride yourself in, taking good care of it is proof that you are a strong and firm dominant who will always take care of himself, his things and his submissive.
“I urge you all today, especially today during these times of chaos and war, to love yourself without reservations and to love each other without restraint. Unless you're into leather.”
― Margaret Cho
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