Her safety is always top priority

Always make sure that to look after her completely in all ways. This means being there for her 24/7, respecting her feelings and emotions, respecting her safeword always, helping her to grow and making sure that she looks after herself when needed.

Always listen to her views and feelings

Let her speak and vent with complete freedom, never judging or belittling her thoughts and feelings. You are free to disagree, but it must be done so kindly and with gentle guidance. She is yours and she will follow your lead and listen to you completely. Use this wisely.

Provide Guidance

She looks up to you. She idolizes you. She looks to you to know where to go in the world. Provide her with your guidance and wisdom, show her the light in the darkness and she will blossom.

Stay tuned to her moods

She is like the wild wind, pay attention to her moods and respect them. This will leave you will a content and satisfied submissive who knows that you look out for her and have her best interests in mind.

Provide her with Rules and Guidelines

Structure and rules make her feel loved and safe. She needs them and she wants them completely. She wants to be the best she can, but she needs your help and she craves the feelings of control she will get from this. Go slow, but remember this is important.

Build trust

Show her that you can be trusted with her mind, body and soul. Give her reasons to let go of everything and become yours completely. Once she has reason, she will no longer need to fight to make sure she is heard, accepted, loved, cared for etc.

Always follow through

This is needed for her to trust you. If you say something will be done, do it. Don't leave her hanging and wanting, don't leave her to pick up the pieces and do it herself.

Be consistent

If she breaks a rule, punish her. There is nothing more damaging in a D/s relationship then non-consistency. She can't take things seriously if you don't.

Nurture her

She needs this, she needs you. She is a little girl at heart with a soft and vulnerable center. Nurture this and help her grow. Her needs should be top priority, this includes seeing that she grows to be the best woman and submissive possible. This also means helping her do things that need to be done, even if she doesn't want to. Example: Drinking water (yuk)

Be honest

Even when it is not something she wants to hear. Honesty means she can depend on you are trust you. Honest means she never has to doubt the words you say. She will be looking for total guidance from you, and in order to let go of control enough, she needs to know time and time again that you mean what you say, and your words are said with thought, care and both of your best interests in mind.

Be patient

Both with her when she is struggling or learning, and with yourself when you are doing the same thing. Do not rush into things if you are not ready, do not push her if she is not. You have a lifetime with her, better to go slow and work everything out then to rush and damage what you have spent so long building.