Our Aims for our Relationship

When it comes to Marriage, BDSM and D/s, we are like any other couple, from the outside anyway but looking closer we are perhaps a little more intense and in-depth.

Our relationship requires a degree of honesty and dedication that most Vanilla relationships do not have, and it is safe to say that we are learning this the hard way.

We want

• To love each other to the absolute best of our abilities. 
• To know each other completely
• To dedicate our lives to one another selflessly
• To explore the beauty of sexuality together
• To embrace each other's hidden kinks and desires 
• To know what it really means to have a lifelong connection
• To create a dynamic in our relationship that flows 
• To create a power exchange that minimizes conflict
• To learn service to your partner (Both of us)
• To learn how to be truly human
• To commit to work on ourselves and our baggage

Our Aims with this Blog

I am writing this blog to learn and explore with my Husband and with the Community. I will share all my findings with you, my failures, successes, thoughts, opinions and even the times when I struggle.

Initially I had just planned for my blog to be an online journal only for Him and I, but as I started writing I realized just how much I wanted to be able to share my heart and all my lessons with you.

I hope that everyone can learn something here. I really do intend for it to be a total beginner's resource with at least an introduction into every BDSM topic I can think of.

We want you

• To learn something valuable with each visit
• To grow in strength and confidence as you read that it can be done
• To be able to learn from our successes and mistakes
• To learn to fully accept yourself with love
• To find a beautiful dynamic in your relationship that flows
• To laugh, smile and cry with as you relate to our journey
• To find the information that you seek with ease
• To learn to work on and love yourself 
• To have fun and smile

There are so many wonderful things we can all gain from a D/s dynamic, things which I personally happen to value above all else. Honesty, communication, acceptance, commitment, humor and flow.

It is a journey and we have barely started, but that is also something to be excited about. I look forward to sharing it with you all.