Putting each other first

In no way is a D/s relationship one sided. We both work hard to make sure the other is content and happy in all ways. This is a connection that I am so very excited to deepen. I give up all control in return for the safety and comfort of a beloved wife with a husband who dedicates himself to knowing who I am in all ways. He gives me feeling that I had never dreamed possible and I could not ask for a better relationship.

As a Submissive wife it is my job to always put my Husband first in all matters. This is of course no easy task, but it is what makes him feel good and what makes me feel good. This means his wants, his views, his opinions and desires. I make all of this top priority in my life in return for his care, protection and guidance. 

If he wants to cum, then my body is his to use as he sees fit. I may not be given an orgasm, I may be just a hole for him to fuck. I like this, want this and need this. It feels good to be used for his pleasure and I love being of service in this way.

I provide him with food and drink when he asks. I am learning and still have a fair way to go here though. One day he will have dinner ready when he steps in the door, along with his favorite drink and plenty of time to relax from work in whichever way he pleases.

I make sure the house is always clean for him, usually. It tends to get messy on weekends, but again this is something I am going to change. He should have perfect 24/7 and I am going to make it happen so that his life at home is something that only ever feels good.

I am learning to step back and allow him to make all the decisions. Everything ranging from my orgasms, masturbation, clothing and duties all the way to things regarding home and money. He is the man of the household and I intend to be his submissive surrendered wife in all matters.

It pleases me to be allowed to truly embrace the side of myself that loves to serve and nurture. To be given the chance to do this to such extremes is really a wonderful gift.

Putting her first

He gains everything when it comes to control in our life and relationship, but I get so much in return for giving it all up. I trust that he will always put me first and take care of me in every way that it is needed. 

He will guide me when times are hard, and when they are not. He will be my rock when I am likely to fly into the wind. He will teach me the things I need to learn, even when they are hard and I struggle.

If I need comfort he is always there for me, because I am his princess and he cares deeply. If I am down he will bring me up. He will give me the feelings of control and protection that I crave on a day to day basis, treating me as a special little thing that exists only for him.

He works hard at his job, making sure that we have enough money to get by happily and we are never wanting. In return I make the home perfect for him. We are a good team. 

I get all the gooey perfect feelings that I seek in this world from giving control to him, knowing that he always has the best in mind for me at all times.